relationship. relationship? relationship!

As you all know, i have a very open relationship. We tell each other everything that we thought our pair (i dont know if the phrase "our pair" sounds so gay or not..?) needs to know, even a fact that we think could hurt him/me. Besides, we are actually also a very open minded person. We do not ban each other from anything and anyone. We strongly believe that this relationship couldnt stop us from being ourselves and from the things we like. And it makes it possible for us to never lie to each other. When one of us say no to something one of us will do, then we could know that that something might be too dark and unsafe for us to do, and then we must choose to not doing that. Thats what usually happened to us. Quite easy right? Yap, this relationship style of us is what really makes me confuse about the lies and everything from another couple. But whatever, if you do happy anyway. But just one thing would never been accepted by me is if someday you make a family and raise a kid with a very ugly view to be remembered and in the middle of a very uncomfortable environment to grow. I will hate all of you who ever have a thought of that but still go to marriage only because you're afraid to take a risk and find somebody else more suit for you to go to a marriage.

==Cheers==

keep it simple

Hello, world. Hows life? Mine is quite ups and downs, but fun..as always. I was working overtime these two weeks. It was quite tiring and after the first weekend of that two weeks, i got sick, but still has to go out and work...and smile. But actually, i really enjoyed my working time these two weeks, so smile was not that hard. I like to be on client's site. I like to have a chitchat with them, actually i like it with anybody. I like to hear everybody's mind cause each of them are somehow special.

I had my time where i was alone in a cab and out of how and when, suddenly i was having a conversation with the taxi driver. Those drivers were actually kind and nice. Glad that i was never fell into the wrong hand. In every story that i heard from every of them, i always feel blessed. Once, one taxi driver said to me "you must be very clever for have had a good job in your age", i replied to him "no, im just lucky for being born in my family".

Currently, i was feeling more lucky for born as me. It is maybe one of the time i will tell you about how lucky i am for being with K and why did i mostly call this relationship as the so-fun one! Just yesterday, i was planning to go to grand indonesia -one of mall here- which was near to HI Roundabout which was become one of a place where many of Indonesians were doing demonstration. I did not plan to ask anybody to accompany me because i will just go fast and straight to buy a necklace for my cousin's wedding party. However, there's my colleague, Adi, who offered to accompany me and so i let K knew. I thought for some men, they will say: just the two of you? or bla bla bla, but K: it's good if Adi could go with you since the mall is near to where the demonstration took place. He's the best! ______________________________________________________________
Thank you for keeping this relationship simple. I'm happy with you. Untill now, i think that's all i need.

Damn, you're married !

Here we go, another love theme for my writing. You must ever watch a movie or read a novel which the story belongs to two persons who crazily in love, and like they were made for each other. The problem is I think you all know that the number of woman population is bigger than man's number, so how it could possibly happen where there is one right man for a woman, and vice-versa.

The condition is maybe not like in the movie or the novel or also the novel which then been filmed, what actually happen is maybe only a man who feels okay with his fiancee and suddenly he turns twenty-something and his parents often ask him "when you will give us a super cute grandchildren, son?" and he already has the job and everything and the moment is right and comes the night where he downs on his knee saying what every woman deserves "would you marry me" or "would you be my wife" or "would you be the person whom I see the first in the morning, and the last person I see at night?" and so on and......whatsoever.

When the relationship you have is okay -or let's say a few higher than okay, it will be easy for you to think about further relationship which actually maybe is not for you. It's like you have a normal blood pressure, but actually you are at the end of the boundary of that normal blood pressure. Do you follow me? I hope you do. So you don't have the signal to feel that something is wrong here -something is in its way to become wrong soon. And when someday, at the cafe or hospital or at the street, you meet your soulmate, damn you're married.