Women's Part

Now, since there’s this person who contacted me and made comment about my writing “Man’s Stupidity”, I just wanna clear something up –because unfortunately this man (or boy? You figure out yourself :D) was used my writing to justify his act in his relationship with his girlfriend which unfortunately I disagree about.

So, there’s also a part where man should take a lead. On “Man’s Stupidity” we talked about something extreme where a man named Denny only had two hours break on one particular week and he chose not to tell his girlfriend and just go play football. What I need to underline here is that I never encourage the girls to disallow their boyfriends to play football in a normal condition. And I also never agree with you, man, who will justify your act of always choose your girlfriend instead of playing something around with your dudes and say that it’s all because you are willing to sacrifice your own enjoyment to fulfill your girlfriend's wants or happiness. It’s not. And you don’t need to do that by the way. There’s this part where the girls also have to understand. (And the man should take the lead as a leader). When I said a woman has a limit to understand, I don’t mean that they don’t need to understand at all. They have to! We have to! And we all –man and woman- have to!

I really really really want to get an opportunity to have a little chit chat with this type of girl, girl who’s spontaneously will say No. I mean, what are you girls afraid of? Physical attraction? Emotional attraction? Well I don’t think you can restrict your boyfriend’s heart. Physical attraction? You are goddamn pretty, Miss. So, I do really want to know what are you afraid of.

Why couple can just be a couple. Simple. They rhyme don’t they? Be it. It’s so much fun!!

p.s: I’ll tell the detail later whats so fun about my relationship :p

Ciao, xoxo.

Man's Stupidity

I once thought that it simply because man and woman is different. We came from different planet, we have different points of view. We just simply different until the last thing we could do to work things out is to understand each other.

Well, i dont think it that way anymore. I think, for some occasions, man's just stupid. Lets bring out examples!

1. When their girlfriends cheated on them, most men will get a fight and grown so much hates to their girlfriends' lovers. Why? Do their girlfriends not want that relationship too? Oh please, of course they do!

2. Second example. I just found out that sometimes when man says "boys will always be boys", they do not say it with the right meaning. They say it because they're selfish. It began when my boyfriend told me a story about his close friend named Denny. At one working moment, this Denny was very busy, even he had to work on Saturday and Sunday. Then he said to my boyfriend, "if only i could have two hours break, i'll go play football with you", he continued "eventhough my girlfriend will be so sad if she's hearing me now".
Well, it caused a long and heavy discussion to my boyfriend and i.

You, man, i'm telling you, you always say that women are never understand. We're not understand your hobby, your brotherhood bla bla bla. You say that women are always push man to choose, to choose between us and ball, us between your friends, us between online games and so on. But you know what, you guys force us to do that. You make us really cant to understand. I'm trying to tell all of you here, that women have a limit, even a limit to understand. What men dont have is a limit to be boys. You need to be a man sometimes, dont you think guys? A man who has to choose, a man who has to make a choice that sometimes not always about his own happiness. We are talking about a grown ups relationship here, and we are talking about two hours -two hours meeting you might make to happen; we are dealing with feelings, so please have a respect.

And for all of woman in anywhere you might be, dont stop asking why, do not understand if you do not need to. We all deserves for a man and we will find one.

p.s: maybe some of you (man) reading will disagree and just ignore it. that's why i always feel lucky to be with such a man like you, you. at the end of the discussion you said that i could be a women's rights campaigner, well ya maybe i can..